How mum gave it her all to raise 'special' son!

RAISING a child who was born with a medical condition has been challenging for Qaqambile Phika.

Things were so challenging that the 30-year-old from Freedom Park, Soweto had to quit her job at a supermarket to look after her son, Sibaluhle, who was born with a cleft palate.

“I couldn’t cope at work because of the long hours because when I came back home from work, I had to take care of my newborn baby.

“My son’s condition led me to quit my nine-to-five job and become a full time mum. I wanted to be hands on and give him all the care and attention he needed,” she said.

Qaqambile said her son, who is now six years old, is a bubbly kid who loves playing with his peers.

But there are days when people tease him about his facial condition.

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“Some people tease him about his square nose and he is called names in the streets and at school. The remarks affect him emotionally and at times he doesn't want to go to school.

“It’s sad that people tease my son. Sometimes he doesn’t want to go out. Through all these challenges I tell my son to be strong, that I love him and that he’s a blessing," Qaqambile.

She said Sibaluhle is in grade 1 and fights with other children who tease him because of his condition.

“This really breaks my heart. My son didn’t want to be born like this. However, it’s worrying that people like my son get humiliated because of their condition,” she said.

Sibaluhle Phika and his mother Qaqambile Phika outside their home. Photo supplied

Sibaluhle Phika and his mother Qaqambile Phika attending a tradition event in Freedom Park in Soweto. Photo supplied

Sibaluhle was born with Facial abnormalities which is called clef lip and palate. Photo supplied

She said Sibaluhle underwent several operations when he was between five months and two years old.

"He still attends treatment at the hospital and also suffers from an ear infection and speech therapy," she said.

Qaqambile urged parents who have children who are different to love and support them.

“It’s important for parents to be proud of their children and encourage their child to feel excited about their abilities. Having a special kid means God trusted you with such a child,” she said.

She said that they will host a fun day in Freedom Park on 16 June to give children hope and encourage them to accept their condition.