HIS WIFE died four years ago and he mourned her for more than a year.
He then tried to move on, but his relationships were never successful.
And he believes this is because his late wife keeps chasing his girlfriends away.
The man even dreamt of his late wife and his prophet friend claimed she disapproves from beyond the grave.
So the pastor sprinkled salt and holy water around his house, but his dead wife is still killing his passion.
The 47-year-old told Daily Sun these shenanigans started two years ago when he brought his ex-girlfriend home.
“The room would be cold at night, even in summer. I’d feel her presence but ignored it. Everything is normal when I’m alone.
“Poking was a problem. My 4-5 would come alive but fall when it was time for action,” he said.
The man said he also dreamt of his late wife telling him how angry she was at him.
When he asked why she was angry, she would turn around and disappear.
“To top things off, women’s clothes would either be found near the window or in the kids’ rooms.
“My children still don’t know what’s going on, I wouldn’t know how to describe such a situation to them,” he said.
The man has lost six girlfriends and is afraid he’ll also lose his current girlfriend.
“I love her with all my heart and she’s really been patient with me.
“I’ve explained my situation to her and she’s been trying to get help for me. I’m just afraid she’ll run out of patience and leave me. I’m tired of living like this,” he said.
He said that he never cheated on his dead wife.
“I’ve always respected my wife and I’ve never given her a reason not to trust me,” he said.
The man’s girlfriend (38) said she’s still trying to adapt to sleeping in a cold room.
She said she loves her man and won’t give up on him.
“I knew the late mamfundisi and I didn’t know her to be feisty.
“She was a sweet person and was always smiling, so it’s shocking to see her stopping her husband from moving on,” she said.
She said she put her clothes under her pillow so they didn’t end up in the kids’ rooms.
“I pray every night and we sprinkle holy water and salt, but she won’t rest in peace,” she said.
The prophet claimed that the wife is terrorising the man.
He said he had hoped the holy water and visits to the grave would stop her behaviour.
“I really don’t understand her behaviour because this is not the kind of person she was,” he said.
Sangoma Joseph Dungamanzi said his bones told him someone fiddled with the wife’s grave.
He said it appeared that someone used muthi to make her do this.
“She appears to be a sweet and kind person, but these visits to her grave aren’t helping because of the muthi,” he said.
He said she doesn’t have control over the situation and no matter how much they beg her to stop she won’t. “The only way to solve this situation is to cleanse her grave and do a ceremony to help her rest in peace,” said Dungamanzi.
