REAL Housewives of Durban star Ayanda Ncwane wrote a letter to her late husband, Sfiso Ncwane, five years after his death.
Ayanda posted the lengthy letter on social media and said she asked God to give her five years to get used to living without him and she no longer grieves for him, but she celebrates him.
“Dear Bab’Ncwane, it’s been 5 years since you left us on this very day. I asked God to give me 5 years to get used living without you Gwamanda, and He has. Today I don’t grieve for you, I celebrate you, your powerful legacy, our friendship, our unforgettable love and marriage,” she wrote.
She also wrote about why she hasn’t remarried and said Sfiso would’ve been proud of how she has been raising their children.
“You left a bar so high that I’ve taken my time to remarry because I know what a great & enjoyable marriage full of love is supposed to be. You’ll be so proud of how I raised your beautiful boys because I know how much you loved the boys & how intentional you were at raising them to be even greater than you,” she wrote.
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“Also, I think the wedding vows were written by a group of men and there were no women on board because I disagree with the part that says ‘till death do us part’, maybe for men but personally I carry you in my heart and spirit for the beautiful memories.”
Ayanda then said she knows that had she been the one who has died, Sfiso would’ve already married someone else.
“I know if it was me who passed on by now you’d probably be on your second wife, trying to get an amazing wife, best friend & business partner who can at least come close to what I am,” she said, with laughing emojis.
“Well, the Lord has a great promise for me as per Jeremiah 29:11,” she said.
Her followers sent her messages of love and applauded her for being strong.
Sfiso died in 2016 after suffering from kidney failure.
