Hey MizzB

I’M a 23-year-old single mum. I fell pregnant in varsity and my lover denied he was the dad.

My disappointed parents made me drop out for a year.

I’m in my final year and my ex is back. He wants to see his son after a two-year absence.

Is it wrong to deny him access to his child? 

- Mama


Hey Mama

Negative feelings are understandable, given the fact that your child’s dad abandoned you in time of need.

It’s wise to talk to your parents. They might help you make the best decision.

But don’t punish your son for his dad’s mistakes. It’s important to put his needs ahead of your own resentment.

Give him the opportunity to develop into a healthy adult. Forgiveness allows you to own your happiness and success.

Send a Please Call Me to 083 323 1023 or email mizzb@lovelife.org.za