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There are 15 790 cases of child rape that have been reported, with only 14% of the perpetrators being convicted. Finding out that your child has been raped is every parent’s worst nightmare. It leaves you questioning your ability as a parent and affects the family system.
Rape is unlawful sexual intercourse or any other sexual penetration without the consent of the victim. On finding out that your child has been violated, your first instinct would be to clean the child... DON’T!
How you help:
- Do not bath the survivor! You will destroy evidence
- Remain calm and believe the victim
- Listen! Allow them to express themselves
- Take the victim for medical assessment immediately
- Remind the medical staff to call the police and open a case
- Get counselling for child and family.
Facts:
- Girls are more likely to disclose than boys
- Know your child’s daily activities and people they meet
- Note changes in behaviour.
Rape is not about sex, it is a tool used to take power and control over the victim and it can happen to both males and females. The emotional effects can last for years. Call 083 323 1023.
