HE’S a big man with a small problem . . . a small 4-5 problem!
The 37-year-old man from Protea Glen, Soweto said his 4-5 looks like that of a 12- year-old boy.
“I’m even ashamed to look at it myself,” he told Daily Sun.
“I’ve taken all sorts of pills to grow my 4-5, but none of them are working.”
He said no lady was willing to or settle for his small 4-5. They simply run away.
“My relationships never last. As soon as I take my pants down, they take one look and that’s the end of my relationship,” he said.
He said he’s never been in a relationship longer than three months, and that’s because he tries hard to avoid poking.
“I’m so tired of trying. I really don’t know what to do,” he said.
It doesn’t help that he’s become a joke around the kasi because the ladies talk about him.
“This has affected my confidence in ways I can’t describe. I even deny having a small 4-5 when people ask. It really hurts,” he said.
His 60-year-old mum said she realised when he was a baby that his 4-5 wasn’t growing normally, but she thought it would get better when he got older.
But as he grew, she noticed that her son was less confident in himself than he should be.
When she asked if everything was okay, he said all was well and he only opened up about it last year.
“It’s sad. I know how much he wants to settle down and have kids. The fact that he swallowed his pride and spoke to me about this means he has really tried all options,” she said.
The mum said she’s also been trying to get help for him, but people aren’t able to help.
Sangoma Joseph Dungamanzi said it’s hard to help because problems such as these have to be dealt with at an early age.
He said he’ll talk to other gobelas to hear if they could help him.
