Sex with bae’s boring! He is so stereotyped and won't try new things


Dear MizzB

My partner is 35 and I am 28.

He is so stereotyped when it comes to sex and it’s boring. We are supposed to get married in December, but I have doubts.

The thought of me starving myself sexually scares me. How do I change his views?

  • Sistas

Dear Sistas

It’s different strokes for different folks.

Every person has a right to make sexual choices that suits them well. You can talk to your partner about exploring other activities, to make your sex life exciting. Meet each other halfway and both make sacrifices for the sake of your relationship.

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