My man ujola no makhi who is married


Dear MizzB

I found out that my boyfriend has been having sex with our neighbour, who is married.

She gives him money and buys him a lot of nice things. He has since refused to stop their affair and I’m hurt. Will I be wrong to tell the woman’s husband?

  • Sistas

Dear Sistas

It seems as if your boyfriend has an agreement with the married woman and he is comfortable with it.

It is understandable that you are disappointed and hurt by his betrayal, however, don’t rush into making a decision that you might regret later.

Telling the woman’s husband might seem like a good solution, but it can also come with consequences that might hurt you too. Your boyfriend doesn’t see the importance of respect and loyalty in a relationship. Love yourself enough to put your needs first. All the best!

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