My girlfriend is bi-sexual. Is it possible to make her love only me?


Dear MizzB

I recently discovered that my girlfriend is bi-sexual and has been dating her supposed best friend behind my back. I want her to choose between us and not date both. Is it possible to make her love only me?

Dear Brothaz

Sexuality is not a switch that can be turned off or on. Unfortunately a bi-sexual person gets attracted to both males and females at the same time. You cannot be able to stop your girlfriend from dating other girls, simply because she has feelings for them. Keep in mind that you have the power to decide on what kind of a partner you want. Do what is best for you and your happiness. All the best!


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