My girl gained weight and doesn’t do it for me anymore


Dear MizzB

I’ve recently stopped wanting to be intimate with my partner.

She’s gained weight and I no longer find her sexy. How do I tell her this without offending her?

  • Brothaz

Dear Brothaz

Attraction plays a big role in a relationship. Communication should always be present when it comes to any change of feelings towards your partner.

Unfortunately, there’s no guarantee that she will not take offence to what you’ll be telling her. Do so with caution, respect and sensitivity. All the best!

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