I'm not attracted to bae anymore. Must I stay for my kids?

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Dear MizzB

I am 33 years old and have two kids.

  • I love my kids a lot, but find myself less attracted to their mum recently. I paid lobola for her, so must I stay for their sake or leave? Brothas

Dear Brothas

Kids deserve to have both parents happy and content. Relationships are built on love and attraction. Once you feel less attracted to your partner, consider going for couples’ counselling. Staying in a relationship for your kids is a recipe for disaster.

Never compromise your happiness. Remember a healthy mind motivates a healthy body. Try and fire up the spark and if all fails,you both can decide what will be best for your family. All the best!

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