I said STOP, but he didn’t! How do you do such a thing to someone you love?


Dear MizzB

I’VE been with my boyfriend for two years. Last week he asked me to visit him.

He suggested we try anal sex and I agreed, but when it got painful I told him to stop. He continued pinning me down and choking me so that I couldn’t scream.

He tore me apart and didn’t stop even when I bled heavily. I woke up in hospital due to the injuries. I can’t believe the person who claimed to love me did this to me.

The doctor called the cops. A case was opened. Is it possible to do such a thing to someone you love?

  • Sistas

Dear Sistas

The use of power displayed by your boyfriend is unacceptable and trampled on your rights.

No one can ever intentionally cause harm to someone they truly love. Wishing you a full recovery and strength. Please seek counselling. All the best!

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