I have feelings for friend’s bae. Would I be wrong to tell her how I feel?


Dear MizzB

I HAVE a friend who has a fiancee and they are expecting their second child.

The challenge is the fiancee confides in me most of the time, and I’ve since been developing feelings for her. Would I be wrong to tell her how I feel?

  • Brotha

Dear Brotha

Friendship comes with trust, loyalty and honesty.

Your friend clearly trusted you enough to introduce you and let you have a close relationship with his fiancee.

Consider cutting off communication with the fiancee and focus on your friendship. Telling her how you feel does not guarantee she will feel the same, but certainly will damage the friendship you have with your friend.

Is it really worth it? All the best!

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