Chomie won’t leave tsotsi lover. How can I make them break up?


Dear MizzB

MY friend is in a relationship with a thug. I tried to tell her to leave the relationship, but she’s still with him.

I am worried about her safety. How can I make them break up?

  • Sistas

Dear Sistas

It’s a good thing that you care and are concerned about your friend’s safety. It’s not easy to make someone see things from your perspective.

Your friend is an adult and knows what she wants. If she’s not ready to leave the relationship, then you should let her be.

All you can do is to be there for her.

Reassure her she always has your support, so she can reach out to you should the need arise.

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