Bae too close to ex’s family. How I can make her see she needs to cut ties with them?


Dear MizzB

MY girlfriend and I are both 30 years old. I want to marry her and start a family but I’m having second thoughts as she’s too close with her ex boyfriend’s family. How I can make her see she needs to cut ties with them?

- Brotha

Dear Brotha

Your girlfriend might not see anything wrong with being close to her ex’s family. Open up to her about your expectations and what makes you feel uncomfortable. Consider couple’s counselling to find common ground. All the best!

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