Baby mama’s cheating on me. How do I heal and move on?


Dear MizzB

I MET a guy who told me that he has been sleeping with my baby mama for months now.

I am so hurt that I can’t even stand to see her.

The worst part is that she denies it even though I saw evidence from the guy.

How do I heal and move on?

  • Brotha

Dear Brotha

Being cheated on is one of the most painful experiences that one could go through.

Unfortunately when it comes to feelings, there is no avoiding them.

You might think that after she has admitted that she has cheated on you, you’ll feel better but this can actually make things worse.

Deal with your pain and disappointment.

Keep your distance from your baby mama until a certain time when you are calm and ready to talk about co-parenting. All the best!

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