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YOU NEED TO BE STRAIGHT WITH HIM

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I’M 24 and have a baby boy.

I’ve dated some guys but never really felt anything for them and, at first, did not understand why.

I’ve been in a relationship with my man for the past year.

But three months ago I went out and met someone, and for the first time I felt alive and loved.

The challenge is that the person I met is also a woman.

To be honest, I’ve always been attracted to girls, but how do I tell the man in my life I’m really a lesbian?

  • Mum

Hey Mum

The point of a relationship is to be open and create a connection with another person.

This needs you to share who you are, as well as your weak points.

It is a good idea to build a support network around you by first telling the people closest to you.

The most powerful tool you have is speaking your truth and owning it. When you undervalue who you are, you teach the world to belittle you.

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