Dear MizzB

I AM a 25-year-old dating a 20-year-old woman who’s still studying.

I’ve spoken to her many times about wanting to have a child with her, and she said she was willing to do so in future.

She fell pregnant a few months ago but had an abortion without telling me.

Now I feel a lot of anger towards her. Please let me know how to deal with these feelings.

  • Guy

Hey Guy

Trust is important in a relationship, and it takes both parties to maintain it.

Be open with your partner about how her actions affected you and what having a child meant to you.

Even if it is her body, you have a say in what happens to your unborn child, and your rights should not be ignored.