Hey MizzB

I’M a 22-year-old woman in a relationship with a 32-year-old guy.

After giving birth to our son last year, I lost interest in my partner.

I told him how I felt, but he didn’t understand.

Now every time he touches me, I feel nothing for him.

I’m now cheating on him with someone else.

Please help me understand if I should stay in this relationship?

Hey Lady

Experiencing difficulty in bonding with your partner after the birth of a child can be challenging.

Women and men respond differently to parenthood.

The question is: Were you happy in the relationship before, and what are your expectations of the relationship now that you have a child together?

It would benefit you to send a Please Call Me to 083 323 1023 or email mizzb@lovelife.org.za