Dear MizzB

I am 23 years old. I’ve been dating a 32-year-old guy who took my virginity.

I often took pride in getting tested and knowing my status.

I always showed him my results, but he always refused to get tested.

I went to get tested last week and found out I’m HIV positive. I was also told my viral load is high, which suggests the person who infected me is not taking treatment.

How do I live with this?

  • Girl

Dear Girl

It is unfortunate that your partner’s dishonesty has resulted in a threat to your health.

One can’t change the past, but you have the power to own your future. You can report this man for his irresponsible actions.

Take ownership of your life by taking your treatment correctly so that you can have a healthier life. Let’s talk more.