3 months ago
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Hey MizzB

I’m a 27-year-old married woman with a huge burden.

When I was a university student, my lecturer forced himself on me.

Later that day my boyfriend came to visit and we had sex. I discovered that I was pregnant a few weeks later.

I disclosed my situation to the doctor and he advised me to pick the man I want to be the father and I chose my boyfriend.

We later got married, but we are now struggling to have more kids. How do I continue to live with this secret?

  • Lady

Dear Lady

Secrets in a marriage are a load that can be poisonous.

It would be best to know the paternity of your child by getting a DNA test done as this may have a negative impact on your ability to conceive.

You should talk to your partner about your past so that he can support you. A healthy relationship takes constant work and effort to maintain.

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