I’m 19 years old and in a relationship with a guy who has a girlfriend.
He asked me to be his friend with benefits. I agreed because I wanted to be in his life. I thought I could win him over but nothing has changed and I’ve only fallen deeper in love with him. He only calls me when he wants sex. What can I do to make him fall in love with me?
You are not in a relationship with this man. You are in love with the fantasy of what you want him to be.
Your biggest mistake was giving your body to a man who is not invested in you.
Allowing him to make you his booty call makes him lose respect for you as a woman, a girlfriend or a possible wife.
You deserve to be with a man who will love, appreciate and respect you.
You will only attract that type of man when you know your own worth as a woman. Uyimbokodo, own it! Live it!