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GOING THROUGH BAE’S PHONE CAN END IN TEARS!

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SNOOPING through your partner’s phone is a big no-no and it may end in tears.

Therapist Dr Samantha Rodman said most people do not take too kindly to having their partner sneak through their phone trying to find proof of their misbehaviour.

In an article published on Talkspace, Rodman said some relationships end when a person finds out their partner was looking through their phone, precisely because they feel so violated.

“When you meet the right person and when you work through your trust issues, you will not have the time or inclination to check anyone’s phone but your own,” she said.

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We asked SunReaders on social media if they were comfortable with letting their partners go through their phones and most of them said there were boundaries not meant to be crossed.

Nkosinathi Thulani Malaza said: “I don’t want her to go through my phone as in paging it, but she can answer it on my behalf.”

Bakba Mandisi said once your phone is a no-go area, there is no honesty.

“My wife takes my phone when going to church and I take hers. I don’t even page it because there is nothing I’m looking for,” he said.

Julia Mahloko said: “Am not hiding anything but not with my phone.”

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