Dear MizzB

I’m a 27-year-old guy and want to marry the woman I’m in a relationship with.

But we have had a lot of disagreements and break-ups.

When I get angry I can’t control myself, so I beat her because she keeps verbally attacking me.

She doesn’t share her problems with me but turns to family and friends. Please help me!

  • Mr

Dear Mr

There are disagreements in every relationship, and if you and your partner learn to resolve them together you can strengthen your partnership.

But when you physically abuse your partner, you fill her with fear. This can destroy her trust in you and the feelings she has for you.

Marriage won’t make the relationship better while the unhealthy behaviour continues, affecting the families involved.

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