Dear MizzB

I HAVE been in a relationship with a guy who is five years older. It’s been six months now and I am afraid to tell him how I feel about sex. He is strict and old-fashioned, and doesn’t even want to watch sex videos. How do I change his mind so he can stop treating me like his child?

Dear Sista

Fear should never be part of the emotions that anyone has to experience regarding their partner. The fact that you are not comfortable to talk to your partner is a sign that communication is not clear.

You owe it to yourself to express your feelings because your happiness depends on it. Consider going for couple’s counselling so that a neutral person to facilitate fairly.

Good luck, sista!