Dear MizzB

I’M a 30-year-old lady who’s been dating my partner for five months and we haven’t had sex.

He keeps sending me sex videos and images and this makes me feel uncomfortable. How do I know that he is really in love with me or just want to use me for sex?

Dear Sista

Unfortunately, not everyone you meet will be clear about their intentions with you. Dating is a gamble that might leave you with victory or defeat.

There’s no way of knowing what your partner wants until it unfolds.

Just because he is sending you sex videos doesn’t necessarily mean he wants to use you for sex.

Open up and let him know how you feel about this, and together decide on what will work best in your relationship when it comes to sex talks.

All the best!