Dear MizzB
I have a problem. I’m in love with a married man, but my main problem is that he is very jealous.
In Love
Dear In Love
Relationships comprise various dynamics which makes being involved with a married man more challenging, as he has a family whom he has to support and spend time with. When agreeing to date a married person you are simply saying you are ready and happy to be second or third best, and willing tofulfil the desires that he has. When you feel that he is jealous and that makes you uncomfortable you need to talk to him and express your feelings. Jealousy can be mistaken as a way of showing love for the other person. As much as you love him, maybe it is time for you to re-evaluate your values and do what is best for you. Keep in mind that there is always a choice when it comes to the type of relationship that you want and you are the one who holds that power.