2 years ago
She is playing hard to get!

LOST INTEREST writes:

This chick is playing hard to get. The first time I met her I asked her to meet me at a restaurant but she never pitched. I went to where she works and she told me she came and never saw me. Since then, every time I ask to meet her, she says she’s busy. I told her if she doesn't want me she should just let me know. She said: “If I didn’t want you I would tell you.” I felt that I had lost interest and now I’m trying to run away from her. But she’s always staring at me. What must I do to wrap things up? If I confront her now it’s going to be the last time – I’m done with her! What move should I use, and what words are suitable for this situation?

BROTHER, WOMEN ARE VERY COMPLICATED and sometimes we don’t know what we want. Women enjoy the thrill of being chased and courted correctly. This little game you’re both playing is a test to see if this is really what you want. Stop getting emotional and devise a plan, understand your priorities. You want to find out if she’s worth it. KICK IT! Sulking won't help.

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STILL NO SEX writes:

Hi, I have a girlfriend who already has a child (not mine) and I love them. I used to support them financially, but I didn’t have sex with my girlfriend. She promised to visit me when she has the time. Am I on the right track or not?

THANK YOU FOR BEING SUCH A SWEET MAN in giving a child love, life and support.

You are on the right track for loving them both unconditionally. But your girlfriend needs to make you her priority too, as you have made them yours. There’s no such thing as too busy, we can all make time for what’s important to us.

It’s time you both sit down and iron things out. KEEP IT! You're doing well.

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HIDDEN FROM FAMILY writes:

I've had a girlfriend for the past two years and she’s currently pregnant. She stays with her sister whom I have never met. My problem is this: She’s too secretive about her family while half of mine have met her. I want to marry her but I'm not sure what I'm getting myself into. Please help!

SOMETIMES IT’S VERY HARD FOR WOMEN and sometimes a little complicated for them to expose their love lives to their families. In our culture it’s disrespectful to bring a man to meet the family unless it’s official. As you say, you're planning to marry her, but you’re not married yet! So she still owns that part of her life.

Make it official and you may be pleasantly surprised to find that her family will love you.

Don't be too hard on yourself. Love requires communication and understanding. KEEP IT!

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