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MY BOYFRIEND DOESN’T SATISFY ME IN BED

SHE KEEPS MAKING THE SAME MISTAKE OVER AND OVER writes:

I’m dating a girl who is a year older than me and she has a daughter. I love her so much and I’ve accepted her daughter as my own. We’re even talking about getting married at the end of the year, but she keeps making the same mistake. We’ve spoken about it but it keeps popping up. What must I do?

THERE SEEMS TO BE A LOT OF SWEET, RESPONSIBLE MEN AROUND. As a single parent it’s such a blessing to find a man who’s willing to extend his love for a woman to her children. Bless you! As for the “mistake”, it’s said the first time is a mistake, the second time is forgivable, but the third time is a challenge. I don’t know what the mistake is, but if it challenges your policies or your God – then it’s a challenge. You need to adjust and find a way to manage this. Finding the cause is the first step to understanding. If you still love her, KEEP IT! Find a way to deal with it.

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MY BOYFRIEND DOESN’T SATISFY ME IN BED writes:

Hi dear, when I initiate sex with my boyfriend, there are times he can’t perform. It makes me wonder what’s wrong with me. Or doesn’t he love me or want me and does he have someone else? What should I do?

SEX IS LIKE HAVING A NEW CAR, YOU WANT TO DRIVE IT EVERY DAY. But as time goes by you won’t have the urge to wash and drive it daily. Sex between two people is the same. Maybe you’re so used to sex with him that it has become predictable, and the flame has died. Sex is an activity that needs innovation and creativity. KEEP IT! But remember – intercourse is an activity that heightens connection, it’s not a tool to prove how faithful we are.

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MY GIRLFRIEND MAKES ME FEEL BAD FOR NOT BEING A VEGAN writes:

My girlfriend doesn’t eat meat. She thinks it’s bad because you have to kill animals. When I eat meat she always pulls faces and makes negative comments. I don’t want to go through life being judged all the time. How must I approach this?

THAT’S REALLY UNFAIR OF HER! We live in a world that allows everyone to express their beliefs freely. She’s taking your constitutional rights away. Love is not judgmental. So voice your qualms and air your feelings. KEEP IT! Straight talk never breaks a relationship. Oh, and if she doesn’t eat meat, I hope she has also given up wearing leather shoes!

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CRUSH ON KHANYI writes:

I have this big crush on you. What should I do?

JUST CONTINUE TO LOVE ME. Your love makes a world of difference. I belong to you and everybody. KEEP IT!  

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