Last year
I JUST DON’T KNOW HOW TO LEAVE HIM

I JUST DON’T KNOW HOW TO LEAVE HIM writes:

Hi Khanyi, I’ve had a boyfriend for two years and he keeps cheating on me on social networks. I love him. I do everything for him since he’s at varsity and I’m working, but still he does things knowing they hurt me. I want to leave him, but I just don’t know how to. Please help!

AAAH! MATTERS OF THE HEART, so sad that no matter how educated or high up on the corporate ladder one may be, heartache is greater than all of that.

But here’s the truth: In any relationship where one partner seems more advanced than the other, there’s bound to be a clash. This means your outlooks on life will be different and your priorities won’t be the same.

Social media is part of student life. So, either you come down to his level or decide what matters the most to you.

He might not be ready to commit. And you can’t buy love. KICK IT!

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

MY BOYFRIEND WANTS A BREAK writes:

Hey Khanyi, I’m 23 and in love with a guy who is 27. We argue about small things constantly. Most of the time I start the fight, because he doesn’t answer my calls. Every time I complain, he gets upset and ignores me for two or three days. He spends a lot of time with his friends and I feel like he doesn’t have time for me. Sometimes his WhatsApp profile picture would be of him with another girl. When I ask about it, he gets upset and blocks me on his WhatsApp. He’s even told me he needs a break from me. What should I do?

OH HONEY, ALL WE WANT IS TO BE LOVED AND APPRECIATED!

Sadly, because of our lust and neediness we choose to ignore the signs of truth.

You’ve given your boyfriend every reason not to take you seriously. To be loved starts with us loving ourselves, and only then can we be a good partner to someone else.

KICK IT! He’s just not that into you!

-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

MY GIRLFRIEND TREATS ME LIKE I’M NOTHING writes:

I have a problem with this lady I’m currently with. First, I had to prove to her how much I love her and at a later stage she told me she has a boyfriend. But she said she loves me and if I don’t mind, she wants to be with me too. She treats me like I’m nothing and doesn’t actually consider me as her boyfriend.

She never SMSes me or replies to my chats. Please help because I really love her.

WOW! PEOPLE STILL DO THIS? All I’ll say to you is she’ll treat you any way she pleases, because you’ve put yourself in second place.

Self-value and self-love start from within. Love yourself first before the next person can.

KICK IT, brother!

Comment on this story
0 comments
Add your comment
Comment 0 characters remaining

Why do you think President Jacob Zuma instructed Finance Minister Pravin Gordhan and his deputy Mcebisi Jonas to come home from a trip promoting Mzansi to investors?

Should someone get fired when they don't go to work for a few weeks?

Do you think a person can be fired for being fat?

Do you think thick-figured girls should participate in Miss South Africa?