NO MARITAL BLISS WITH LAZY WIFE writes:
I’m a man of 53, married for 22 years, and a worker who
sent my two kids to the best schools. But my wife is very lazy, she can’t even
do housekeeping. I’ve had no sex for three years! She watches TV until 3am, goes
to bed and wakes up at 5am and sits on the sofa all day. She only gets up to go
to the toilet or feed herself. I’m considering divorce, but I’m afraid of losing
the bond with my children.
SIR, YOU CAN NEVER LOSE A BOND. Your children will
always be yours. As for your wife, she has simply forgotten her vow to you.
Three years without conjugal rights is unfair. If you are faithful to her and
loyal, she’s being selfish.
But divorce after 22 years of marriage is no child’s play. It
wouldn’t be an easy process. Consider the damage it would do to the family. Your
wife’s conduct is disappointing. It sucks! She needs to KICK IT!
BOYFRIEND CHEATS AND HITS ME writes:
Hi Khanyi. I’m a girl of 22 and my boyfriend is 26.
We’ve been dating for six years and we have a son together. But
he always cheats on me with different girls, and when I find out and confront
him, he beats me in front of the girl! After that he will come to me, apologise
and say he loves me. I don’t know what to do, for this is not the first time
it’s happened. I love the guy but he always hurts me.
BABY GIRL, I AM SO SORRY FOR WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN
Abuse is the lowest form of disrespect, and what makes it worse is
the fact that he has gone as far as doing it in public and humiliating you in
front of his other women. He doesn’t love you! You can’t force him to love. You
have a self-esteem problem and it may be part of the battered wife
You are worth more than this – and he has seen that you have no
clue just how valuable you are. Love yourself enough to say: IT ENDS HERE!
Child or no child, you can’t stay in a physically abusive
relationship with any hope of a better life. You are slowly losing
MY BOYFRIEND PROPOSES TO MY BEST FRIEND writes:
I have just checked my boyfriend’s phone, and I found
out he was asking my best friend to carry his child! Please help.
SISTER, WHAT A HEAVY SITUATION. I’m so sorry for
you. Your partner is a dog, and belongs in every dustbin in the hood. Sickness
is rife, so be careful. But you can’t call a person your best friend when your
man is hitting on her and she doesn’t tell you. If he is asking for babies from
other women, he is willing to bed them. You opened his phone and now you need to
deal with the outcome! Lose this loser. KICK IT!